Sex is 3-letter word that needs 4-letter words to convey its true meaning: Love, Give, Lust, Last  by Margie Holmes

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Sometimes, talking about sex with your partner is a bit an odd conversation.  It has to be treated personally and intimately.  Still, one has to face its value and vulnerability in order the relationship work well.  After all, an activity that is meant to be enjoyed, should provide fulfillment for both parties.

Together with Menarini Philippines and Philippine Urological Association launched its Commit to Control PE Advocacy campaign last year to address one of the more pressing issues regarding sexual intimacy – premature ejaculation (P.E.).

My weekend was spent with a productive talk called “Happy Wife, Happy Life.  The campaign is meant to make couples more comfortable about discussing their intimacy concerns with each other, without it being a cause of insecurity or dissatisfaction.

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Dr. Dennis Serrano shared about the “basics” of premature ejaculation to help the guests have a better understanding of this condition.

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He recommends to take this diagnostic test to check if one is suffering from P.E.

Idea is, there is a treatment available for premature ejaculation.

  • First and foremost is constant communication with your partner – discuss it openly.  Understanding the situation and try to figure how to make it work more.
  • Another one is medication –  intake of Dapoxetine  which is available by prescription in 30 mg and 60 mg oral tablets.  Talk to a doctor to avail free consultation with this link –

It was also been a while when I heard about Dr. Margie Holmes who we met also during the event.  She talked about the value of sex and relationship that center to her topic “the love that last is better”.

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As years goes by, always keep the flame of love alive as what Dr. Holmes advised to the audience.  Physical affection has a value of touch and can be a bridge to spice up the relationship more.

She ended her talk with its 4-letter true meaning of Sex –  Love, Give, Lust, Last.

Overall, the talk is an enlightenment for married couple like us.

For both of us who is 4 year engaged and 23 years married,  until now, we are considered ourselves as two imperfect people.

We refused to give up on each other no matter adversities came to our lives.   Because we believe that everything can be resolved by allotting time to talk it out, resolving it and taking into action thus special bond occurs.

Maybe that is the meaning of a relationship. Aiming for forever love.